AITA?

Question

I’m getting married and one of my best friends is a Gay man! 
I love him dearly !
 I’ve asked him to be a bridesmaid and he’s OF COURSE accepted !, BUT...
he thoroughly enjoys cross dressing (he is NOT transgendered. We have gone through this over and over) well, he wants to wear a dress same as the rest of my bridesmaids. Normally, I would be all for it ! But not all of my family is accepting and I’m nervous all of their attention will be on the male in a dress opposed to my husband and I. 
AITA for asking him if he can wear a suit instead of a dress?
Im honestly distraught over this because I want to make everyone happy and don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings. 
Help.

Answer

Tell him what you want him to wear in YOUR wedding, just like you’re telling the rest of the bridesmaids what they will wear. If he can’t wear what you want him to wear, then he can’t be a bridesmaid.

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One of the weddings I was a bridesmaid in had a bridesman. He wore a suit with a tie matching the bridesmaids dress colors and stood on the bride side. Not a gay man but it worked just fine. That being said it is your wedding and if YOU want him to wear a dress then have him wear it.

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I'd just tell your phobic family to get bent if they make a big deal honestly. But in the end it's your wedding and you can tell him what to wear people usually pick thier bridesmaids outfits anyway

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