I think I'm still hurt and pissed off

So I posted a few days ago about how shitty my birthday was and how no one not even my husband did anything for me. No cake no nothing and then he made me drive my two youngest to his moms house on my birthday and he went to bed shortly after I left so when I got back he was dead asleep. Well today it's his birthday and his dad made sure that we had the stuff to make him a cake and my husband made sure to tell me I had to bake it for him and he's says with a smile and chuckle even though I didn't do anything for yours. I'm just so hurt and I was trying to get over it and trying to make it no big deal but I just can't help it. I feel like I'm not important at all to my family or my husband. This is the worst feeling I've had in a long time.