Headaches every single day

I have had a headache every single day for at least a month now. My boyfriend keeps telling me to go to a doctor, but I keep putting it off hoping they’ll go away on their own. When they do go away, it isn’t for long. By the time I get home from work and go to bed every day, my headaches are so bad I feel like my head will explode. Sometimes I go to bed as early as 4 pm because of them. I alternate between excedrin migraine and Tylenol. But neither really help, and if they do, like I said it’s for a very short period. I really hate taking medications. The other night I was doing ok, and I got what I believe was a “thunder clap headache.” I’ve been noticing my vision in my right eye is also getting blurry, and sometimes my eye will start twitching bad. Does anyone else experience this? I know people get migraines but when they describe them to me it doesn’t really seem the same. I’m not having any sensitivity to light or sound. Sometimes they do make me a little nauseous but haven’t had any vomiting. Sometimes makes me a little dizzy. But mostly extremely tired.