Vbac or csection??

So my last pregnancy was 10 years ago. Here's how my birth story went so you can better understand my concerns... I opted for vaginal. So here I am getting induced at 38 weeks (pregnant with twins mind you). Everything is great til I get to 7cm n now I wont dilate. My water has been broken and no progress so they decided on emergency c section since its been too long. During surgery, I hemorrhaged. Had a blood transfusion but successfully gave birth. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks due to off n on fever. I was traumatized I mean i lost so much blood I could have not made it.

10 years later , now... I'm pregnant with a singleton and I really want to do vbac. I'm just scared of something rupturing and/or scar tearing. My dr says it's a risk either way and doesn't lean more towards either one more. He says both are fine and safe.. there will always be risks. So now I'm just trying to see the pros n cons of both.. I want your honest opinions on what you'd do.