Sex drive completely gone
Ok you guys, I used to be a total nympho for as long as I can remember. I was worse than a man when it came to sex lol When I was in relationships, I’d initiate sex multiple times a day to the point that even he would say “damn, I need a break, i can’t do it that many times” And when i was single, i would have fk buddies with no strings attached because i NEEDED sex and craved it all the time.
When I met my husband, I was the same way and our sex life was amazing for about a year. Then all of a sudden it’s like a switch went off.... like Im all sexed out and my sex drive ran out. We got engaged, then married. Nothing in our relationship changed, nothing emotional or stressful going on besides every day, normal things and minor disagreements/fights.
It’s been about 2 years now and no matter what I do, I have no sex drive. Most or the time I have to force myself to have sex just to get it over with and please him... we go weeks, sometimes months without it. And It’s so unfair to him.. and sad on my part that I’m no longer to enjoy something i loved and something that’s important for a healthy relationship.
A couple of months ago, out of nowhere one day I got REALLY horny. Like my old self x 10 all of a sudden came back. I masturbated multiple times that day and when my husband came home from work that day we had sex twice and it was amazing. I had the most intense orgasms for the first time in years and I couldn’t get enough. I couldn’t stop touching him and wanting more and then the next day i woke up and boom.. gone. Back to the “sex aversion”...
Fast forward to a fee months later, I’ve had the sex mood come Back a few more times ( not as intense as that night) but I was still in the mood and wanted it and we had some good sex. Each time it only lasted for a day or 2...
This is crazy.
I feel like maybe I have a hormone imbalance or something? My husband suggested maybe I go consult with a dr but I’m a little ashamed to talk about It with my Gyno, I just don’t know if there’s anything out there that will help stabilize my libido??
I’m so curious to see if anyone knows anything about this or has any advice!!
I want my normal, sex loving self back!
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