Moms of teenagers or moms in general help

Hello I’m a 16 almost 17 year old teenage girl and I need help on how to convince my mom to trust my 13 year old brother to watch over my 8 year old sister.

When it comes to my mom she never wants to here what i say, she doesn’t wanna teach me how to drive, she doesn’t wanna let me drive with my other friends, she doesn’t even want me to go out with friends that aren’t the 4 friends I’ve know since elementary.

Today I want to go to the mall then spend the night with my friends until Monday night due to a Pool party i wanna go to. My mom says she thinking about it because she doesn’t trust my 13 year old brother and sister to be alone for 9 hours while she works. Which I find very freaking stupid because she has been trusting me to take care of then before I was even 13 and they were way younger than 8.

If you are a mom or if you were s mom how would u be convinced to letting your oldest go and having your other teen watch your youngest and the house?

My brother and sister can literally leave and go places anytime they want but when it comes to me the only place I feel like I can go is work and that’s only for 4-5hours 4 times a week. It makes me cry how little freedom I have, I watch my friends have the best summer ever going out 24/7 just having fun. I want that busy I can’t because I have a responsibility that I don’t even have a choice to have.

So can someone please help me convive her?