How much does your SO help with baby?

Stay at home moms how much does your SO help with baby? My husband works 12 hour days and has to wake up at 3 am every morning so I feel bad asking for help with the baby . When I do ask he WILL help but he rarely OFFERS . Giving baby bath , taking baby so I can just have a breather or do some laundry, putting baby to bed at night etc, never happens. Does it make sense for him to bring in the money and me take care of the baby or do y’all think he should be helping more . I don’t know but I feel bad asking when he’s been working all day long 😫