Post marriage struggle?

Question

My husband and I got married about 3 weeks ago, and I'm really struggling with the change. Everything is bothering me and I have basically no sex drive. Anyone in a similar boat? ☹️😔

Answer

Urgh. Straight after we got married I thought we have basically ruined everything by tying the knot. I had v similar feelings. I even stopped wearing my rings for a while. 
But after a few months I realised that nothing had changed, we were the same couple as before, and I put my rings back on 😊
I think this is quite a common reaction tbh. I think you’ll be just fine! Give it a bit of time  🌸

Answer

Perhaps yes. My husband and I lived apart for a year even after getting married and then when we started living together it hit me hard. I did not like the way things were turning to be. He was nitpicking. I am not the most organised person in the world and he is neat freak. All his shoes and suits and shirts were organised while mine were still in boxes. And with all the complaints in my head and anger sex was not very enjoyable either. And consolidating finance were also difficult. I am not very communicative either. One day I wrote to him an email stating all the things that were bothering me. He toned down after that. And I adjusted myself too. I picked the things that are most bothersome for me as well as let go of some habits of mine. Things tend to be normal since then. Try not to let it turn into a battle or hurt each other. For me , taking some space, a breather helped. It’s ok to do that for achieving balance.

Post marriage struggle?

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