So my brother lives with his girlfriend and baby momma. He's in his mid 20's and still doesn't drive. When she doesn't feel like driving to pick him up from work, she pretends she's sleeping or turns her phone off. My brother never offers any kind of gas money and his job isn't close by either. My bf has to get up and drive at 11 at night to give him a ride because my mom is also "sleeping". I'm so sick of eithier me or him having to get up and drive late to pick someone up just because his lazy ass girlfriend doesn't feel like it. We haven't given him a ride in a while because 1. It's not our job and 2. I just had a baby and need my bf here to help me, not drive at almost 12 at night to take someone home. I know it's my brother but a 25 year old man shouldn't have to have people driving him back and forth to work like a kid. So we got a phone call a couple of minutes ago and it was my brother asking for a ride. Again his gf is "sleeping" and her phone is conveniently off. I don't like the bitch, so it pisses me off that when his payday roles around she spends the entire day spending his check but can't even pick him up from work. She has this mentality "his family will do it". I haven't slept in days being home with a newborn and was ready to go tuck myself in now that my toddler is fast alseep and so is my baby. My mother calls and says everyone is asleep in her house if my bf can go get him. My mother still babies my adult ass brother it's fucking ridiculous. So she feels everyone needs to baby him. I told her everyone was sleeping at my house to. She then says "even (my s.o)? We haven't given him a ride in a while." First of all, even if my s.o isn't sleeping, IT'S NOT HIS JOB to pick someone up and who cares if we haven't given him a ride? Again, I haven't because I don't have to. I told her fine whatever and my s.o went. I sent her text letting her know I told my bf to tell my brother that now that the baby is here he won't be able to get and go get him late at night. Pretty much that's me saying don't call me at 11 pm waking me up to drive 30 minutes away because some lazy bitch refuses to do it. If my mom is so worried about it she can get out of her bed and drive herself. I told my bf not to answer the phone from now on when he calls and I won't be answering my mother's call either.