My grandmother is a controlling manipulative matriarch.. she is vile to my mum (her daughter) and controls the whole family by causing arguments and making sure its never peaceful. The only reason she gets away with what she does is that no one dares to say anything because she turns into a victim and sits and cries! Anyway thats just a tiny small back story of what she is like.

So for weeks and weeks she has been trying to find out what name we have chosen for our baby. This is our 4th and final bubba we decided to keep her name a surprise for everyone. The only ones who know the name is me my partner and our 3 children. We told the kids because our 8 year old is autistic and we have had to introduce the baby from the start so when she is born it isn't a huge surprise and she can cope better. But thats besides the point.

Everyone knows her name is a surprise its just a fun thing everyone is waiting to hear what we've chosen.

Apart from the old nosey matriarch obviously.

Who decided that yesterday she would question and manipulate my 5 year old son while he was at a christening with my cousins into telling her the name! 8 days before i am due to be induced 😡😡😡

I am so angry that she just can't ever do as anyone asks of her its got to be her way or no way!

She has to know everyone's business at all times to the point where she wants to know whats in people's bank accounts!

RANTING ABOUT THIS ALL DAY I'm just so angry