Monster in law

My mother in law is the worse. She's actually walked into my house whilst I was in the middle of breast feeding my daughter, grab her from my arms and said 'I'm off out with the baby. I'll text you when I'm on my way back'. I literally had to rush up (whilst my boob was still out and spraying everywhere) and try and grab my baby back. She wouldn't give her to me. In the end I had to ring my husband who told his mother that if she took our baby that'll be the end of her ever coming close to our family again. She gave her back to me and told me I should let her do what she wants as it's her grandchild and she knows how to look after a child. Bearing in mind she's in and out of hospital for being an alcoholic!!

Another time she came over 3 weeks after having my daughter and told me I was fat and if I wanted to keep her son I'd better lose weight.

She's also questioned me about whether my LO is really my husband's as she looks nothing like her family. (She's the image of me)

She's also come round with Christmas and Easter presents for my husband and daughter and nothing for me. And blatantly tells me she didn't want to get me anything.

I seriously get anxiety when my husband tells me She's coming over.

I have another daughter now and she's the same with her. She TELLING me I'm not coping and she needs to be here to help me. I really am coping and even if I wasn't, my mother lives 3 doors from me.

The list can go on for ever

Her and my mother hate each other because when my SO and I got married she started on my mother and called my mum a thief and said she's stolen her son from her (My husband calls my mum, mum) she asked my mum out for a fight and said that she was a disgrace and was being vile. My parents paid for our wedding. His parents never put a penny towards it. I actually hate her.