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So after trying for two years my husband and I stopped trying. He has started "being honest" about how he's not happy in our relationship for this and that reason. He says he's not happy sexually either so now him and I are not in a very good place in our relationship. I feel as if he wants out or just doesn't love me anymore. We have talked about going to marriage concealing but now I think I am pregnant and don't know how to tell him. Like I am nauseous all the time, my period was for 2 days( its never 2 days 2 weeks maybe but 2 days never). I don't know how to tell the man I love that when we aren't in a good place I am pregnant with his child. That should be amazing new but I feel he would be pissed off. Idk what to do!

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Well, the first thing for you is to take a pregnancy test. You can only deal with one thing at a time and right now the outcome of the test dictates how you handle the other issue with your husband.
If the test is negative then you need a frank, open and honest conversation with your husband - along the lines of is the marriage over, is this something that can be worked on or is this the end game.

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Well first take a test before saying your pregnant so you don't get your hopes up, if your are pregnant you could tell him but personally I would you don't want someone to be with you just because you guys are having a baby, that's not the right reason to stay in a relationship.

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It’s good the communication has started, as heartbreaking as I’m sure it was to hear. I’d wait to see if you are pregnant before saying anything. Wishing you both the best of luck the next steps ❤️

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Make an appointment for couples counseling. When you find out if you’re pregnant you’re gong to have to tell him, there’s no way around that. He’ll either be there or he won’t but this baby is not going to fix your marriage. You two need to do that. You need to go to counseling- even if he sad “ok, I’ll stay.”

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Don’t say anything about possible pregnancy. If he wants out of the marriage, he wants out. If he wants to be a father, he’ll still be there for him child (co-parenting). If he doesn’t want to be a husband anymore, or a father... good riddance. There are plenty of great people out there that can be a great partner to you and parental figure to a child.

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