Advice

First I want to make it clear that I have nothing against someone with ADHD, just looking for a little advice if any.

I am currently engaged to my boyfriend and he has ADHD. It has been a learning experience for myself as we've been dating. I've had to adapt to his random hyperness and the lack of attention when trying to speak to him. And he refuses to take medicine for it because of how it affected him when he was younger, plus he wont swallow pills.

I was just wondering if anyone else with a significant other with ADHD or even if you have it yourself how your significant other makes you feel comfortable in the relationship and just any advice really. Thanks