anyone has a toxic parent?

im going to keep it short & sweet my mom is a very toxic parent, very ignorant, conservative & if it's not her way its no way basically. i moved out at 16 with my dad which was the best decision ever made hands down & now my brother who is 15 is going through the same thing i went through with my mom. she's never told me that she loved me, everything i have i worked for i had a job since 15 yrs old & she wanted all of my checks from me busting my ass & he texted me saying he has no purpose in life because of how she is & its making me really sad & upset. im trying to be the supportive sister here but its hard bcuz im also a parent & im on the fence here!!!! ☹️