Sometimes it's hard...

It's my birthday. Woke up to flowers from my husband but then instantly made breakfast for everyone (we have 5 kids) and I ate last. Then I deep cleaned my house with very little help from everyone, even though I asked. Grocery store then home to get a snippy husband because we needed sugar for him to make homemade pizza dough. He asked me at the store and I told him, no he didn't, I didn't even stop to look at the sugar, he insists that yes he asked me, but guessed since I didn't say anything it meant we had some. I told him again that he didn't ask me, then his tone of voice got snippy, which goes into him talking to me like I'm stupid, he does this a lot. I said, sorry guess I didn't hear you. He rolls his eyes and goes back to the store. I go in the bathroom and cry, making sure my kids don't hear. I don't know how to talk or act anymore. We've been married for almost 13 years and this just started. I will also have to make my own birthday desert once he's done making the pizza, which I don't mind. I don't expect gifts anymore because we have more important stuff to worry about but I have to say, this hasn't been a very fun birthday.