Would you be ok with your S/O picking up other girls from a concert?

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So my boyfriend is friends with these girls, who I have never met. He thinks it is ok for him to take these girls to a concert and pick them up. He doesn’t understand why I’m not a fan of it. I guess his last girlfriend let him do it but that’s not how I am. So I just want to know if any of you think this is ok so I can feel a little bit better about all of this.

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Personally no I wouldn’t, but I know a lot of girls are gonna get on here preaching about “I trust my man” yadayada... if you’re not comfortable with it you have a right to that feeling and he should respect your wishes.

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Yes, I would be perfectly fine with that. They’re his friends. I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone I didn’t trust

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Well my husband would say no anyways but if he had a female friend who absolutely needed a ride, he would have me come with. I trust my husband 100% which is why I married him...

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Why is that what he wants to do with his time? That’s the weirdest part lol is he going to the concert with them or like just going to drop off/pick them up? Kinda weird and no I wouldn’t be okay with it personally

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Wait, I misread.. 
are they paying him gas money? Why haven’t you met them? How long have you guys been together?? 
My husband has some girlfriends that will call him or me (mostly me) to pick them up if they are to intoxicated.. I always send him.. not trying to drive

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The part I find weirdest is why he hasn’t introduced them to you. That’s definitely the biggest red flag for me. The fact you haven’t met them and he wants to drop them off and pick them up. Just because they might not even know he’s dating you. If he was open about things he shouldn’t care if you guys all meet.

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They're carpooling. Why would I have an issue with that? My husband carpools with 2 girls to work every day (and one guy, but he's not always there)

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Depends 🤷🏼‍♀️
Feel like there’s a lot of grey area with these situations

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I wouldn’t care. I trust my husband. If you can’t trust your partner then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with them. 
Also, you’re not his parent. He can do whatever he wants with whomever he wants. You cannot control him. That’s toxic. You never “let” anyone. They don’t need your permission.

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Honestly, ya. If I felt weird about it, then one of the there and back trips I would just tag along. Meet the girls. Make an effort to conquer my anxiety. 
Sounds like a nice thing he is doing tbh

Would you be ok with your S/O picking up other girls from a concert?

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