Were separating, he’s moving out-just need someone to tell me it will b ok

I won’t get n the details. But me and my hub (high school sweet heart) are separating. I told him i want a divorce. We been together for 14 yrs married for 11.

Even tho I initiated it and that this was long coming and i know he wants this too I’m still heartbroken cuz i love this man. A lot has gone on in our relationship. And this is me trying to put my foot down. I want him to fight for me but that won’t happened. He gave up long ago. We have 3 kids, 11,9 and 9 months. I recently left my job of 7 yrs to b a sahm (yes I know, y leave my job if we’re not stable...I don’t wanna get into that)

I just really need someone to say it will b fine. I’ll make it. Trust the process. Maybe he’ll see the grass isn’t greener it will get better with time. Something.

I need a friend to hold me. I need support. I turned here. Yes I have family but i don’t want them involved just yet.

I devastated to tel my kids cuz i know it will crushed them ( we separated for 6 months a few yrs back and it really did affected my oldest)

I know that this has to be best. I’m hoping that later down the line he’ll have an epiphany or something and want this marriage but i dunno.

Any positive affirmations thoughts or vibes would be so appreciated