Would you be ok with your husband using a fleshlight (esp when you have a lot of sex already)?

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If you and your husband have a great, normal, healthy, satisfying sex life but he approaches you and asks you if you’d be ok with him having/trying out a FleshLight, would you be ok with it? How would you react? What would you say and/or do? Would you buy it for or with him? What would you set up as potential boundaries? Thank you for your honest responses!!

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I’d say “wtf is a fleshlight”? 🤔

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Not gonna lie, I’d be using it on him half the time 😂🤣 I think it’s sexy as fuuuuck!! 
I’d be asking for videos ALL THE GODDAM TIME!!

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I’d probably laugh a little and tell him to go for it. I wouldn’t set any boundaries. It’s just a sex toy. I have a vibrator. I didn’t even ask him because I don’t need his permission to buy a sex toy. We don’t care about those sort of things. As long as we use it alone or with each other.

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I’m not abusive and don’t control how he masturbates, so no I would not have a problem

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Imagine your husband telling you that you’re not allowed to finger yourself lol

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No I wouldn't be happy.. not when he can get the real better thing.. because maybe when he starts using it.. u might not to be having satisfying sex after that.

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I let my husband buy one, the kit. I use it on him when I don't feel sexy or when I'm uncomfortable (I'm 36 weeks pregnant and trying to give a blow job or hand job right now is super hard). I wasn't sure about it at first but being pregnant and trying to find a comfortable position for sex is hard. He probably uses it maybe once a week or twice a week, depending on his mood.

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I actually bought him one lmao. And he bought me a vibrator. We like doing things like that for each other. It doesn’t bug me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Yes, it’s the same as females using toys

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Hes a grown man. Why would you care?

Would you be ok with your husband using a fleshlight (esp when you have a lot of sex already)?

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