Mind your own damn business!

What would you do or how would you feel if someone kept posting about your own personal business on their facebook when 1. You're not even Facebook friends to begin with. 2. You're not on good terms with each other. 3. They're very personal things and things you didn't tell others or announce yourself. And 4. IT'S NOT EVEN THEIR DAMN BUSINESS TO BEGIN WITH!!!

My sister and I aren't on good terms, I simply can't stand her. She had unfriended me off facebook awhile back and just recently sent me a friends request. Today I went ahead and accepted it and I wen through her profile to see what all she has been posting and she posted about me having my c section, she posted pictures I sent to my mom (my mom was sick so she didn't want to come to the hospital), and then she posted about how our baby had really high bilirubin levels (jaundice) and it got really serious. We spent an additional 6 days in the hospital and they almost had to do a blood transfusion.

We never once discussed any of this on our own social media. And I feel its awfully rude and disrespectful that she had the nerve to tell everyone OUR business.

My main family (mom, dad, sisters) knew when I was having my c section but we didn't tell anyone else simply because we just wanted to announce when he was born. And after we got settled into the hospital.

I'm so annoyed and frustrated. I want to go off. I want to scream.

Who gives her the right to post about our business just so she can get the attention off it?! That's all it comes down to. The attention.

I just want to tell my husband about all this too but I know if I do he's going to flip out. He really hates my sister. So it sucks that I either don't tell him and bite my tongue about this frustration and hide it from him. Or I tell him and risk having him explode. Ugh.

I'll also add that yes she knew not to say anything. Everyone knew that we didn't want it on facebook until we said something. My family also knew not to say anything about the c section for the simple fact my husband didn't tell anyone when we were having the baby.

No we did not tell anyone to not post about our baby otherwise for the simple fact it wasnt on our mind that anyone in our family would blast our personal business of what we are going through.

It honestly shouldn't even matter if we said anything or not, you do not posts someone's business. Plain and simple. Especially when you're not on good terms or even have them added to see what you're posting. It's disrespectful either way. Don't use someone's business as your personal gain for attention.