4 months pp and still looking haggard

I’m almost 4 months pp now and I’m on maternity leave so really the only time I leave my house during the week is to drop off and pick up my son from school which is a block away. Most days I just throw on a hoodie and sweat pants and a toque and go. I know I look gross but I honestly don’t have the time or energy to get all “done up” just for a 5 min walk. I mean all the other parents see me and I hope they don’t judge haha but I just can’t bring myself to do my hair and put makeup on every single day. The reason I don’t brush my hair is that it’s been falling out like crazy and it’s really long so it knots super easy. The only way to get a brush through it without ripping it all out is to wash it. So I’ve just been putting a toque on to cover it up. Also none of my pre pregnancy clothes fit yet unless they are sweats or leggings and I’m not about to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe since o do hope to lose some weight sooner rather than later. Please tell me some of you other moms are like me.