WTF... am I wrong??!!!

Question

So here’s something that I’ve been struggling with for a while. Ive been with my husband since I was 15. We’ve been together 21yrs. So he still keeps in contact with the ex before me. My issue is that every time she reaches out to him she starts talking about how she was so into him and how she would have waited for him...how she always hoped that he would leave me and get back with her. So this happens every year or so. Its really pissing me off. I told my husband that he should ask why she always brings it up if it was so damn long ago.... let me add that shes married with kids. Call me crazy but I would never reach out to an ex to reminisce about the old times. Especially if they’re in a relationship. This bitch is really testing me. What do you think???

Answer

No. Wtf this isn’t like recent this is like a little less than MY entire existence on this earth and he clearly still hasn’t let it go. 
Don’t be dumb and think that this is innocent because the fact that he, as a married man is entertaining an ex from 2 decades ago insinuates to me that he also thinks about the same shit she’s talking about. 
UNLESS they have kids, there is no reason at all for him to still be in any kind of contact with her especially since the bitch is blatantly disrespecting you and your marriage. 
I’d put her in her place and if he gets pissed I’d tell him to go move in with her because ain’t a day in hell a man will make me feel a certain kinda way like this.

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If she's married then let her husband know what his skanky wife is doing

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Why isnt she blocked if she keep doing this? Do they hv kids together. Your husband should tell her he is happy and please dont contact me anymore it’s disrespectful. Some people are toxic and like to cause problems or shes not in a good place. Whatever the reason... hubby needs to set her straight or just block her all together.

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I think he should have cut contact the first time she brought up that very inappropriate conversation. My question is why he continues to keep in contact with her. I would feel very uncomfortable if my ex did that (no contact with exes for me). Is it becuase he just enjoys the attention or does he have some sort of feelings towards her?

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No kids between them. I think about a year ago I saw a few emails back and forth between them. At first casual hey hows it going... then there she went. So I was fucken livid and ask him wtf. He said he didn’t really care about all that. So I told him that it was out of line. Im pretty sure her husband would agree. I just found out about this recent exchange last night and I’m fucken fuming. I just don’t understand how he doesn’t fucken get it. Maybe he likes the attention.... I don’t get the sense that he’s unhappy so IDK.

WTF... am I wrong??!!!

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