I don't know what to do.

Ok first out let start this off. Please no negative or rude comments. I come to here to get advice.

So me and my husband have been together for a very long time. He told that he has a low sex drive so our sex life is not good. I mean we have sex probably 1 or 2 times every 3 months. I have tired to talk to him so many times and he says everything will change. I always find porn on his phone that he downloaded. Also I've found pictures that he has screen shot of my cousin and friend. I've told him he needs to go talked to someone that he has issues. He always says he is tired and not in the mood. I don't mind he watching porn but I need some time with him too.

What would yall do in my shoes?