Advise

My boyfriend wanted to be friends because he says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship but he told me that if I dated someone else they better know his place ? He says we friends but we still have sex/oral, he gotta know where I’m at, who I’m with. He literally gets mad if I don’t pick up but or if I say that I don’t wanna be friends I wanna be with him and if he doesn’t wanna be in a relationship I’m not gonna sit around and wait while he texts other females and all this bs I’m done he gets mad and like tries to guilt trip me into staying with the whole “I’m used to people leaving me” stuff. If you wanted to be friends why you still acting like we in a relationship... like I really wanna be with him I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a relationship I’ve done nothing wrong. Never cheated or anything of course I’ve gotten mad or jealous but that’s any female