Why can’t I finish with him?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have talked about this multiple times. For some reason I can’t finish when he’s doing it, I find myself lying and saying I did to save time. He says I make him finish so he wants to return the ‘favor’. But I just can’t seem to do it. I always end up doing it once I get home or once he falls asleep. I feel so weird and broken.

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A lot of women can’t finish simply with intercourse so don’t worry. My boyfriend and I went through the same thing but we decided to sit down and figure out what helped to get me there. Literally an hour of us just trying different positions lol. Also, maybe you could talk to him about getting some toys but lying will only make the problem worse :( good luck, you can do it!

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Do you try to foreplay? Maybe try different positions or even try oral sex if you both are open to that. Sometimes you have try different things to see what you like. But most important feeling relax and confident will help you orgasm

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It’s actually common for women to have trouble finishing through intercourse alone. I play while my husband and I have sex and if he finishes first he takes over. I don’t ever remember not having an orgasm when we have sex but I only ever came from straight intercourse once in the 20 years we’ve been together.

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Foreplay works, do oral just work your way up till you're really feeling it and when your doing it just relax and concentrate on the feeling. I'm sure you'll get to finish it takes time sometimes.

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in the same boat. you just have to communicate and find what works. for me i have to help with my clit and it gets me there.

Why can’t I finish with him?

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