Don’t even want to have a wedding anymore

Planning has been a headache. Even worse with my mother telling me I’m being unrealistic to plan it with a kid that will two during that time. She’s like how does living in sin for two years add up like what ? The place we wanted it at is expensive and will take time to save up for plus we are moving into a bigger apartment. We are also saving to get me a car. So she’s just so judgmental about stuff. I just don’t want a wedding anymore. I just right now rather go to the courthouse.