Need major advice here!

Ok so I’m planning on doing a career change. I am currently a full time LPN.

I’m not going to get into the details of wanting to change careers cause honestly I could write a book.

But I am currently 8 weeks pregnant❤️

I do not regret my choices, or wish to turn back time. Me wanting to do this is BECAUSE I wanna do even better for my baby.

The process would be a lot better to start now than wait til later after the baby is here.

My husband works daylight M-F 8am-4:30pm everyday and has on call days/weekends. I am currently working 3rd shift. This would be ideal with having the baby as we wouldn’t need a babysitter/nanny or anything. I’d be home all day, and he’d be home all night.

Well, what I plan to go back to school for, the profession is daylight. My husband is adamant on me going back also cause he’s very supportive of what i want to do, and he knows how much my current career just kills me.

Does anyone have any ideas on what we could do child care wise? I am very much so against daycares. Not bashing anyone who uses daycare as an option, but I personally just don’t trust people and there’s constantly something happening in my area related to the daycares.

My husband and I live hours away from any family. And all the friends I’ve made here are daylight workers as well😩!

Is there any other options for us? Sorry if this is all over the place!