Fiance’s bandmate’s SO.

Alright so I need opinions, advice or something.

My fiancé has been in this band now for a little over a year. so I’ve known these people for just as long, I’m extremely supportive and get along super well with everyone.

I hadn’t gone to my first show until recently(because of my work schedule, it’s hard to make it to shows), typically I would see them play when they have practice or when we all just hang out, but recently I have been able to go to a few and I could not have been more excited. It was so fun, even though its not the typical music I listen to (heavy metal) I still really enjoyed it.

The only thing that really pissed me off was how one of the bandmates girlfriends treated me. When o first met her a year ago she was super chill, super nice and like friendly and I’m a fairly chill and kind person, like I try to be friends with everyone. I hate conflict, I hate unneeded sass, or hate. Period.

Well the first show I went to, she was there taking photos of the bands, well we walked in, all of the band members said hi to me, they were excited to see me at a show finally. Well I walked up to the girl (we will call her jen) and she straight up ignored me. Like looked through me like I was invisible and went to her friends.

I ignored it and thought maybe it’s just too loud and she didn’t hear me. Well, when the band was setting up I offered to help and again, said hi to jen. She literally touched my shoulder, pushed me aside and said excuse me. Literally acting like I was some stranger. This happened several other times.

I told my fiancé about it at the end of the night and he brought attention to it to jen’s SO, who is in the band. He said something like she’s having a bad night or whatever. I said whatever and Brushed it off.

UNTIL THIS NEXT SHOW THAT WAS LITERALLY 3 DAYS AFTER THE FIRST.

my fiancé and I arrive, once again everyone is very excited to see me at another show. We walk into the venue and jen is literally right in the doorway I am standing right next to him, can’t miss me. It’s pretty obvious where I am. She looked at me, looked at him And she turned to my fiancé (name is alec by the way) and says “hi alec!”

I stood there like what the fuck dude.

So I just want advice on how to handle this. Like I feel really disrespected.