Advice

My husband and I haven’t been getting along. We have been living with my parents, we have a 18 month old. He left and is staying with his grandmother.

We’ve decided to go to marriage counseling but it’s a month away.

I’m having a really hard time taking care of my son and working. There’s no room at my husbands grandmas for my son to stay with him.

My husband doesn’t wanna get an apartment and wants to pay off debt. And he refuses to move back in with my parents. He doesn’t seem like he’s in a rush to get a place either.

I know these are things to work on in marriage counseling but I feel like he’s getting all this freedom doing whatever he wants while I’m running on 3 hours of sleep. (I work a nite shift)

Im struggling bc I’m so tired, I love my son but I don’t feel like my husband is stepping up and my parents have been watching my son at nite while I work.

I feel so lost. He needs to step up. Maybe marriage counseling isn’t even worth it but Idk what to do anymore.

We’re 28 years old. He got out of the military last year, tried to apply for a house got denied bc of his debt. Started living with my parent.

My husbands grandmas house is asking for a trip to the emergency room, she has so many set of stairs in that house. So many little trinkets, glass shelves, it’s pretty dangerous for a 18 month old and she’s not willing to move stuff. my husband also has nothing nor money to grab the things he needs for our son. The room hes in has a day bed, so my son can’t really sleep with him he’ll fall off the bed.