I absolutely LOATHE her!

Guys, I freaking can’t STAND my sister in law. She is simply an evil person who doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings but her own. She doesn’t deserve good treatment from my in-laws or anyone in fact.

BACKSTORY:

My sister in law had been with my husband’s brother on/off for 7 years. She “accidentally” got pregnant with his kid (even though she said it may not be his) while they were on a break. My husband and I met shortly after this fiasco and got engaged 8 months later. Around the time we started planning our wedding, my sister in law goes crazy (severe drinking, partying, not coming home) and cheats on my brother in law. He proposes two weeks later. A week after that we announced our wedding date and two days after she announcesthat their wedding will be two weeks before ours even though it was originally supposed to be an October wedding...oh and she takes my wedding colors. At this time she stops talking to me and starts spreading rumors that she was raped and never cheated on my brother in law. This said rape was never reported. I asked politely that they change their date and she said no. I then disinvite her from our wedding and she said she was going to show up anyway and wreck it. She also invited my husband’s crazy ex to our wedding. She then texts my coworkers (a place she was fired from for sexual misconduct) that I’m cheating and my husband is too stupid to figure it out. Flash forward to our wedding week, she had my husband’s ex text me TWO days before our wedding saying she’ll never give him up and she meant more to him than I ever will. Needless to say we hired police officers to ensure none of them show up at our wedding.

NOW:

It’s been almost two years since our wedding and she STILL encourages my husband’s crazy ex to go after him (after not dating for over 8 years), she’s threatened to burn down my house as well as rip out my hair so I would be bald, she told her sister she wished her baby would die and mine as well (I was pregnant at the time/baby is fourth months old now), and she’s broken into her own sisters home to trash the place simply because she got pregnant and her own husband won’t knock her up. She also beat the shit out of her sister 8 months ago and sent her to the ER for a herniated neck disk.

I CANT STAND HER! I was hoping opening the doors to communication would help but she makes my blood curdle. She copies me in everything I do (steals my family photographer, stalks my Pinterest, copies my social media posts) and blasts anything I say to her on social media. Her now husband is a slobbering drunk and they have vandalized my in-laws house writing their initials everywhere as well as burning it into the side of the barn (these are all properties we are going to inherit).

What the hell am I supposed to do? I so desperately do not want to be angry anymore. I thought confronting her would work but obviously it only made me feel like an idiot in the end. It’s freaking eating me up inside and I hate that I feel like a different person for having to compete with her all the time.

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