Am I being ridiculous?

Okay so here I am at work (I’m doing a 12 hour shift.) I call my husband and ask if he could just wash bottles and I’ll help him straighten up the house tomorrow. Well he threw a hissy fit. I’m so exhausted from staying up past midnight trying to get my 7 month old asleep, and then waking up at 5am. And working until 7:30 pm. I feel like a married single mom sometimes. (He’s about to start working at the hospital and his previous 2 week notice has already went up at his old job so he has until the 24th off