Appreciate any advice
Hey ladies! I dk where else to post. And I’m kind of tired of talking to persons that know me. Here’s my story. I think I just want some encouragement, advice will be ok and definitely prayers are welcome! Married for 2 1/2 years. Together almost 4. We have a beautiful 9montb baby girl. And I left him almost 2 weeks ago. Ladies I’ve been put threw so much! I’ve been cheated on. Multiple times. I got left in the hospital alone the whole time basically that I was in there. After my c section by him. Left to care for her days after alone. He’s doesn’t help me with her. He would leave turn his phone off. Not work. Does drugs and drinks. And I finally had enough. I refuse for my daughter to grow up seeing that. For her to wonder where her dad is. Or why he’s gone or when he’s coming back. He doesn’t pay attention to her. He finally got a job. Only to manage to screw it up. This Tuesday was the last straw. I moved back to my parents house. But after I left his house that day. I did his laundry and cleaned his room, he took off and turned off his phone. this was at 3:30 am when he left. I called to wake him for work. He said he was waking up. And I track him. So I know he was lying. He ended up falling back asleep so he said. Didn’t go in. Didn’t call. Still hasn’t called work. Got mad at me because I didn’t call for him. I decided that I had it. I don’t need someone to make me feel less of a woman, that doesn’t respect me, that doesn’t appreciate me. Doesn’t care for his baby. It’s been psychical before too. But I defended myself. He had already been talking to other women and telling them he’s separated. Hadn’t been 3 says since I left. He’s on every damn dating site that exist. No one should ever be treated like this. I can honestly say I was very good to this man. This time I left and it’s for good. I just want some tips to help me manage. What did you ladies do to cope? It’s not easy. But I have to hold it together for my daughter. I’m actively looking for a job too! Thanks for any feedback advice or prayers!!
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