Living with my SO - does anyone else feel the same?
Me and my boyfriend have been living together for about two years and have been together for three total. We took a break a few months ago where we lived separately. We realized that we both wanted to be together but we didn’t move in together right away. Well after like two months he moved into my place. Let me tell you I Love living with him and it sucked when we didn’t because I missed him.
But I miss my own space. I miss having the temperature how I like it. I miss decorating and redecorating how I like. I miss doing whatever I wanted without having to worry about someone else. I work a lot more than he does so he’s Always there when I come from work. I have no alone time. I am cleaning for two instead of just myself.
Sometimes I wonder if we rushed it because we had lived together before. I don’t know. I hate that I’m feeling this way but sometimes I wish I just had my own place again. It just felt different coming home to my own. Does anyone else fee this way? Before him I moved out and lived with an ex. Then I lived with my parents for a year maybe before I lived with him. Then I only was by myself on the break for a couple months. So I never really experienced living on my own and I enjoyed it. Again, I missed him being here and wanted him to move in. But now I just feel like I’m missing something. I’m 24 and feel like my twenties are flying by without accomplishing anything or doing the normal “twenties” thing.
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