23 week pregnant and BD is not emotionally there

So this pregnancy was unexpected and shocked us both. As I thought I couldnt get pregnant. But it definitly was not unwanted( from me ) that was different for the baby daddy.

I'm currently 6 months pregnant and I've been staying with him at his mom's ( mind you we are both 30) for the past 2 months. Shes out of the country for now. But let me tell you. It's been hell. He has been so controlling and emotionally not there.

Like I keep asking him things about the baby and he stonewalls me. Like totally ignores me and doesnt want to answer me.

I'd love to know if he would move out with me and take in action our child or if he is just keeping me here because he cant be without mommy dear. It just suvks because I want to nest and get everything ready for the baby and he is just zoned out about it all.

I always have to push him to get healthy food for me. Most of the time he doesbt and my family does.

I love him and trying to be as patient as possible. But looking at it in the future... it scares the hibegiby out of me.

We fight alot too which concerns me for the baby. To much emotional abuse. I already bought by myself a crib diaper, changing table, toys dresser clothes etc. Him nothing. I'm also in mommy groups and seeing a special nurse to ensure I am being the best mom for my unborn baby.

I dont know what to do. 😓 some say to wait until the dad sees the baby. But he told me to wait 3 months for an answer to whether he would move out or not. But he doesnt seem to want too. He loves living free rent from his mother at her home. And she doesnt want me here either. (Nor do I want to stay)