I’m very direct and upfront and don’t really show my true self to people. I have a protective wall up because time after time I’ve been ghosted, used or just played games with.

My personality is a no nonsense and brutally honest person. I don’t show the fun, annoying crazy side of me until I know someone a little better.

And I think this scares guys away. Or I’m just seriously ugly and no ones type. I’ve been a single mom for a few years and besides my kids I really have no one else when I’m lonely or just need a really good hug. Maybe me being a single black mom is enough to be unapproachable. Idk anymore. I’m slowly but steadily giving up on meeting someone.