Would you divorce your husband for still talking to someone he cheated on you with?

Would you divorce your husband for keeping communication with someone he cheated on you with ?

My husband had an emotional affair with a young lady while traveling abroad. It lasted for 2 yrs online and he put me through hell during that time. Initially he had confessed but he still talked to her and made me feel like I was crazy for thinking he still was talking to her. I finally got the evidence I needed and left him for a couple months and I was pregnant at this time.

Since then we got back together and he promised it was all over and that his feelings for her were wrong. He asked me to come back together and wants to be a family. So we did and his been amazing since. He is such a great husband and father but honestly I’m so paranoid and even have nightmares that he is probably wasting my time and still communicating with her. He was obsessed with the woman for 2 yrs, it’s hard to believe it finally clicked in his head that it wasn’t love. Even when it was over he tried to talk about her like they are childhood friends.

Is it even worth saving if he still communicates with her even as a friend? I’m so confused as to how one can still stay “friends” or thinks it’s okay to communicate with someone you had an emotional affair with