Continue to try or divorce?

So, I posted recently about my wife. We’ve been having issues a lot. Red flags started up the day before she moved in when she got very aggressive and backed me into a corner after throwing our wedding ring at me. We got married in May and this happened

in June then fast forward to January we were moving back into my parents house. We were returning the uhaul and she got very physical with me. Grabbed me by my arms and leaned me back in public screaming at me. I was terrified but we talked and I forgave her making her promise she can’t do that again because of my past abusive relationship that I won’t allow it. We haven’t had sex in months even when I try to dress up and get her attention. We started having more fights. I get called a child a lot during the arguments when I ask her to back up because I’m scared. She once again grabbed me when I was sitting on the floor infront of our closet and shoved me into it to the point it broke the door. I tried to talked to her about how I feel and she said she’s been distant since last weekend on my birthday. What do I do? She says she’s trying but I don’t see it. Our one year is in May