What would you do?

So my husband has extreme paranoia. Over the weekend we went on a camping trip with my family out at the river where no one else was. It was for two days. On the second day he told me he was going to go lie down in the tent and I said okay and that was at like 7pm. Well he stayed in there the rest of the night and refused to come out. I tried to give him our son at around 1030 to lay him down to go to sleep. He asked me if I was laying down too and I said no I’m still fishing. (Mind you the night before I laid him down by myself while he was out side fishing). And he looked at me in the most disgusting way and said “seriously? Seriously? Fuck you. Fuck you.” I said what? And he said you heard me. So I took our son and went back to the fire and sat down. He never apologized. On the drive home the next day he told me how he thought everyone was trying to kill him and that he was having uncontrollable shaking panic attacks because he thought we were alll trying to murder him.

He refuses to get on meds and he refuses to even see a doctor/counselor.

This is not the first time he has said that we’re all trying to kill him. He told his whole family that my parents/sister and brother in law were trying to kill him because my neighbor had someone intrude on their yard and they all went to check it out. The intruder was wearing a white shirt. Well it just so happen that my husband was wearing a shirt that had white on it. So he thought they were trying to get him shot by the neighbor because they all carry a firearm.

Because of that incident he wouldn’t talk or even go out to my parents for months. No they don’t know about it because that’s fucking insane. But I hate that he went and told people my family are trying to kill him??? His family told him to file a police report and stay away. And he almost did it. My parents have never done anything to him and at the time they watched our son every single day for free while I was in class and he at work.

Because he is so paranoid every argument that we have leads to him saying “well you’re just choosing your family over me every time” etc etc when the argument has NOTHING to do with my parents. Then he’ll say shit like “you’re just brainwashed so you can’t see it”.

He has already admitted to being diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia as a teenager but refuses to get help.

What would you do? I get that it’s a mental illness and I’m trying to be supportive, but I’m tired of being treated like this.

**so the thing about his family is he only cares what they say when it benefits him. Most of the time he’s saying that he fucking hates his mom and that he wishes she would just die. So if I tried to get their help he would just laugh in their face and ignore it and then ghost them for months. His family also do not like me. Because I have tried to leave on many occasions due to all of our issues and he likes to make things up about me to make me look bad. So because of that they would probably just not listen to me. They’re always on his side no matter whatt because they learned that he’ll just stop talking to them. They’re pill popping enablers.