Husband interested in the complete opposite of me

Sooooo.. I’m short, chubby with dark brown hair. My husband has had multiple conversations with me about my weight (since March) and I have been working on working out more and eat better. Mind you, I’m exactly the same as when we first met but all of a sudden it’s been an issue.

I have also noticed that recently all of the porn and pics he’s looking at online are specifically of “sexiest blondes” and “muscular blondes”.

My question here, is has anyone else had their SO jerk off to complete opposite women of you?

UPDATE: my husband is a MMA fighter so he has like 1% body fat. I don’t plan on divorcing him over this, since all he’s doing is looking at these women. It would be a complete different story if he was talking to them, which he use to do, but recently stopped before we got married. It’s just uncomfortable to me because he’ll make these comments then go look at these complete opposite women on his phone.