Does anyone else feel flabbergasted at how easy motherhood is to some people?

I’ve always wanted to be a mom, but I’ve struggled almost every day since I’ve become one. I find parenting hard. I feel a lack of self. I feel incredibly guilty all the time if I’m not doing the “right” thing. I’m pregnant with my second child currently and I’m really wondering how I will cope. I love my children so much. They are my everything. But I still find it very difficult.

I see some moms just doing so much. Homemade meals every day. Educational activities constantly. I know a woman who gave birth a few days ago and is already taking walks with her newborn and exercising. I literally could not move for 6 weeks after my first I was in so much pain.

I just feel like it’s so easy for some. And it’s been so hard for me.