Do you still eat after your husband cooks after he pissed you off badly ?

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My husband really hurt my feelings this morning. He says really mean things in arguments but his very quick to apologize. I don’t care for his apologies because I know he will do it again, I also know he doesn’t mean it but I hate this behavior of having no filter just to come and say sorry later. Some of the things he says sticks with me. We can have a great week and one thing happens and he will say something like 
“I’m really really trying with you
You make it so hard for me to be nice to you 
Everyday I’m trying”
Like what the hell does that mean? He makes me feel like he is doing me a favor by staying in our marriage. When we have one argument he will make it seem like that is all the time thing. I don’t get it.
Anyway he cooked and I’m hungry. I’m not happy with him and I feel weird eating what he cooked. I know this is the least of my problems but how do you guys parent or go about your day when you are mad at each other?

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I think both of you guys need counseling, and I would eat, you will only make the situation worse by acting childish. You need to talk to someone and work on your relationship if you want it to work.

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I’d eat. It’s childish to starve yourself. Eat the food and make up over it.  
My mother does this when she’s angry and it honestly makes the whole situation soooo much worse than it has to be.

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I’d still eat if I was hungry 🙃

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I would see a couples therapist. 
And eat dinner. Protesting his food won’t solve anything.

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If I was hungry, yes. Usually being in a bad mood gets rid of an appetite I have. But being hungry will just make you angrier and can cause you to lash out irrationally. Eat and communicate.

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Uh, yeah of course! Maybe leave the room but I’m still eating!

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Uh yes. 
Why would you not eat? I don't care how angry I am, I'm gonna eat. 
ANGRY EAT!

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So. A mentor, when I got pregnant, told me about how his marriage almost ended. They were always fighting and both of them were holding grudges. Their counselor told them they needed to starts saying EVERYTHING. It actually saved them. Not sure that'd work for everyone, but it definitely sounds like y'all need counseling.

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If you're hungry you should eat regardless of how you feel. If you're like me and you lose your appetite when you're upset then that's a different story but if you're hungry just eat and maybe discuss over that meal why this apologies dont fix the situation anymore.

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I usually ignore him and just talk to my kids lol but if he cooked for me I’d eat it. 🤷‍♀️ eventually I’ll come around if it was me that was being the jerk I’ll apologize

Do you still eat after your husband cooks after he pissed you off badly ?

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