In Laws

Hey everyone! I have been struggling a bit lately. To give a little back story my husband and I got married in 2018 and there was a huge blow out with his mom and step dad the week before the wedding. They ended up not coming to the wedding. One of the main issues were that they were posting things on Facebook and spreading rumors about us, it really affected me the most. Since then we have had more contact with them and I’m really trying to rebuild a relationship and forgive them. we are TTC and we just had a chemical last month. When we do conceive and have a healthy pregnancy, Part of me doesn’t want to tell them until we are ready to post it on Facebook, the other part of me just wants to let them see it when we post it, or send them a text with the announcement. I know that I’m particularly salty toward them, especially the step dad because he still hasn’t apologized for any of it and was the one calling my husband and my family telling them I brain washed my husband and that I’m the biggest bitch he’s ever met. I’m very anxious about being pregnant in general since the chemical, but now I’m anxious also because I feel they’ll try to ruin this too. I dont care about my wedding anymore, but I want our first child to be fun and not a drama fest...

Any advice is appreciated!