Best friend and boyfriend
So I've been dating this guy long distance for a bit now. We met each other close to 2 years ago. I moved home 8 months ago. The plan was that we'd move in together in 3 months after he got a job. A couple days ago he texted me and said he doesn't know what I see in him and that he's not a good guy. So I asked him why and he tells me that he has sent and received nudes from my best friend for about 6 months now. (I knew that my friend had talked to him to let him know I was home safe because i didnt have a phone for the first couple days after I got home.) At first I didn't believe him because my best friend is married to my cousin and they just had a baby girl. So I asked him to prove it. He told me her name and so I called my friend to ask her and she told me no that he's lying. So I sent him the screenshots of what she'd told me and I told him I didn't believe him. So he sends me the pictures that he'd received from her. Sure enough it was my best friend. I had to go to work after I found this out which made things hard. (I'm a nurse and work at an assisted living and the residents get upset if the workers are upset.) He and my friend tried calling while i was on my way to work and i ignored them because i was pissed and hurt. My friend texted me when I got to work and told me that if I had any questions to talk to her husband and not her. Which pissed me off even more! My boyfriend then texted me and asked if I was okay and I lost it. I told him no. He asked why so I told that apparently any questions I had for my friend had to now go through her husband. Which in turn pissed him off.
When I finally did talk to my "friend" she said she has ppd and she didnt know what she was doing and she feels bad... but idk that I fully believe her.
Anyway my questions are should I have seen this coming? Should I not be mad at my best friend because of her PPD? Do I forgive my boyfriend because he did tell me? I'm just confused and need advice.
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