Actually started crying.

I am a mom of 2 here and 2 not here, I recently lost a baby May 14, 2020. I had to be induced to deliver. Apparently there was still a lot of placenta left in me about 2 weeks after and I ended up needing emergency surgery on May 24.

3 weeks since surgery and I have been extremely horny the last week and my husband will not even TRY to satisfy me! He won’t have sex with me while I’m on my period because he doesn’t like blood which is fine, I understand but seriously, I’ve told him I’m not bleeding anymore, I told him I’m not sore, so what’s the deal?! I know I can’t have actual penetrating sex yet but seriously he could atleast TOUCH my damn clit! I try my hardest to please him, he gets horny and I’ll either give him a HJ or BJ thinking maybe he’ll please me to. I tell him I’m horny, I wiggle my ass, I rub his penis on my vagina and NOTHING, he might squeeze my boob slightly but that’s it. Tonight I actually broke down in tears cause he just doesn’t care, doesn’t try. I’m tired... emotionally, physically and mentally and I just want sex/foreplay! Is that so much to ask?

Yes I know I could go buy some toys and play with my self but that’s not what I want. And yes I’ve mentioned to him it’s not fair for him to receive pleasure and not return..... after 7 years it seems to just go in one ear and out the other.

How our sex relationship works is

We both get pleasured

Or he just gets pleasured

...... do women ever just get pleasured with out him getting pleasured too?

Grr sorry for the rant. I’m just pissed off.