Sleeping help!!

I need help..

My daughter will be 8 months on the 30th. We co-sleep, so she sleeps with me in my bed.. we had a great routine, usually 9pm-9am with one - two feedings in the night.. When she turned 7 months she started taking 2 naps instead of 3. & now its its 3-4 naps. I can’t get her to go to bed before 10-11. Most nights she’s awake until 1am.

I can’t do this anymore, I can’t even get her to sleep 10-12 hours anymore. I usually wake her up no later than 10am because I don’t want her to sleep any longer because I try to get her to bed by 9, but it never works..

I have been wanting to start putting her in her pack n play because my husband & I want our bed back to ourself 😅 but if I even put her close to her pack n play or crib, she screams bloody murder when she never use to do that before..

I need help.. I put her to sleep at 10:30pm & it’s 11:30pm & she’s wide awake!!!

I should also add that she is usually awake 2-2.5 hours sometimes 3 hours before taking a nap. & also, most of the time she’s nursed to sleep.. I’m trying to get her to be attached to a taggie blanket, but it’s not working.. she refuses a paci, I ordered a mombella, so I’m crossing my fingers it works..

I don’t want to do the cry it out method.

Help meeeeee 😫😫😫