Am I over exaggerating

Hi everyone, please let me know your h b onest opinion I can handle it.

I’m a single mom and have been for almost 4 years, her dads mom calls her on ft but hasn’t actually seen her in almost 3 years.Her dad barely speaks to her only if she’s on ft with his mom.

So here’s the part I want your opinion about. My daughter was on FaceTime with her grandma (dads mom) and while talking, she put a girl in the camera showing her my daughter. I recognized the girl. It’s my bd new girlfriend. I only know because his other bm showed me her picture. I got very mad but didn’t show it.

Something like that is unacceptable in my eyes, only because she didn’t ask me first or talk to me about it. That was very rude and disrespectful on her end. And before anyone says I’m bitter. I’m not, I have no emotional feelings for that man. Good or bad. It’s just a respect thing to me.

Should I say something to her? Or just leave it