What helps u cum ???

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I know this is a weird subject but I don’t care !!! 
If it bothers u .. you can leave now back to my topic .
So any women on here have tips on how they cum ??👀
I hate when I have sex but don’t cum is there something I can tell him to do or is there something he can try to me that will make me cum ??
So yes he has made me cum ALOT sometimes I’ll even squirt lol on good days tho 
But there are times when we have sex and I just don’t cum and it bothers me is something wrong with me ??👀👀
We have sex two days in a row and I didn’t cum 😕 
I told him I did because I was already getting tired lol 
Is there something I can tell him to do to me to make me cum because sex is so much better when u cum lol HELP 😭😭

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I have to have foreplay to a degree for a really good climax. Even with masturbation I can’t just shove a vibe on it anymore and be done in a minute. I’m on the kinkier side and enjoy a small anal toy here and there along with him (or maybe another toy) in the front and clit stimulation of some type but that’s just me. Gotta figure out what gets you there

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I think not everyone is going to cum every time. 
There have been plenty of times when I didn’t cum and yes that can be frustrating but I think it shouldn’t take away from the enjoyment of sex.... sex is enjoyable for me before, during, and after I orgasm, and I absolutely crave his dick independent of my orgasm. Sometimes I just want to feel it, it’s not even about “getting off” all the time. 
That’s just me though. 
I think that you definitely should seek to increase your pleasure and that wanting to cum more often/always is a desire that is a thousand percent legitimate. 
What helps me is letting go and relaxing. 
I don’t think about cumming while I’m having sex, I just direct him according to my pleasure. If he hits a certain angle that feels particularly delicious, I tell him. I also tell him not to stop, or to speed up or slow down... sometimes I don’t give instruction, because he knows what to do. Or because I just want to feel him, and it all just feels amazing anyway. 
Angling upward, or to whatever “side” is most sensitive, is helpful and so is all the contact that can happen that doesn’t involve the genitals. 
I get we just thinking about him taking both my wrists in one  hand and pinning them above my head... 🤤. The other day, what made me cum (for what felt like hours but it was probably like 15-20m) was when he got me hanging partially off the bed, and kept driving me further off the (literal) edge, so that he had to hold me up. He gripped me so firmly, I couldn’t move. He had one arm under my back and one arm that propped him up, both hands sort of holding my head in place so that I didn’t just fall. I couldn’t even turn my head... our eyes met, and when I started cumming I couldn’t stop. At all. 
There are certain things that just send me over the edge, and that complete loss of control being one of them because I couldn’t move no matter how hard I tried, and I loved it, because I could let go completely and still be contained in his hands, his arms.... 
I guess just knowing what turns me on is a huge factor, and letting him know what that is, and the delight he takes in it. Sometimes he tells me he loves me, and I melt. It’s disarming. 
Communication has made sex a lot better, even though its always been good with the exception of a few personal moments where stopping was really my only option.

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Get yourself a womanizer!
I've never had an orgasm until then and now I get them all the time.

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Involve toys maybe a small vibrator I’m never disappointed

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I had the same issue but try riding him so u can control how u feel.

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Tell him to finger your butt or suck your toes

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To play with u before sex so u can climax and then star with penetration

What helps u cum ???

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