Am I wrong for this?

My husband and I originally was planning on trying for baby #2 at the beginning of next year but he’s been acting very hesitant when the subject gets brought up, after talking with him about it he expressed that he doesn’t feel ready for another child just yet. I’m okay with waiting another year but I told him that’s all I’m personally willing to wait, our son is already 2 and I don’t want a huge age gap between each child. I told him if we couldn’t get on the same page when it comes to children then I don’t see our marriage obeing able to work. My best friend says I’m being harsh because I don’t need children to live life but I personally couldn’t imagine life without at least one more child.

Edit to add: Edit to add: it’s not COVID or work, he says he doesn’t want to just get past the toddler phase to start over with a newborn. Which I can respect that so I told him I’d be willing to wait another year but I don’t want my son to be 4+ years older than their sibling. Plus we can’t just “let it happen” as my periods and ovulation isn’t always regular so it takes some effort to track and plan when is the best time for sex.