Would you tell your child?

So my 13 year old cousin was involved with a group of girls at school bullying another girl. She wasn’t the main instigator, just part of the group.

Well apparently the bullying got so bad to the point the bullied girl’s parents found suicide notes. Her parents informed the school who then informed the parents of all the ones involved with the bullying.

My aunt makes a lot of excuses for her. She says she’s “just trying to survive” and never told her about the suicide letters.

So my question to you is: would you have told your child that as a result of their actions another child considered taking their own life?

I think I absolutely would have. They need to learn extreme actions have extreme consequences. I would be disgusted if this were my daughter.