i first want to say that i’m so happy because woman (or men, not sure) created this environment for us to ask questions, rant, and educate ourselves. i love it ❤️

On with my story 😂 Hopefully you will able to understand as i’m attempting to change names here.

Let’s name my boyfriend: Jack

Let’s name his younger/oldest sister: Hanna

Let’s name the youngest sister: Grace

Jacks dog : Gabe

My Dog: Pop

So, we were all at jacks parents house because that’s usually were we go.

I have a dog, and he has a dog, both had same breed but they’re mixed with another (different breed).

Anyways, my dog goes everywhere with me, especially when i won’t be home 3-4 days.

We were chilling and hanging out all together, dogs were fine.

Grace decides she wants to hold her dog (which is more than fine) but she kept on mentioning that My dog “pop” didn’t like it (and he didn’t) he was growling at the other dog gabe. Grace kept on doing it, until i took Pop outside to their back yard.

Then fast forward to the next day.

Hannah comes home from college for one day or whatever and Grace kept telling her “Hannah hold gabe because pop doesn’t like it” “Pop doesnt like it when you hold gabe, he gets jealous, hold him”

Gabe is a somewhat meaner dog than mine is and he growls as Hannah, then comes pop running and attacks the other dog Gabe. It takes us a while to get them to stop bc they were under the table.

My boyfriend and i go to my house due to other reasons and i tell him that i felt as if Grace instigated the whole thing. If you know that pop doesn’t like something why are you trying to get that reaction out of my dog?

i mean it’s your house hold your dog of course do whatever you want, but if you know my dog doesn’t like something and you know how he reacts, and it’s not good, do not try to antagonize him. i see it as the dog fight happened bc of jacks youngest sister. If i’m wrong then i’m wrong.

Jake insists that i’m wrong, bc he’s defending his sister. (i never once said anything bad about her i told him “i know that my dog is in the wrong for doing that and attacking your dog, but i feel as if the fight was instigated by your sister”

i was crying on my way home and started crying again when jack hugged me. I didn’t mean for my dog to attack their dog and i feel so sad. My dog will be getting trained i have an appointment for him this Friday. I hope that he gets all the training he needs so i can take him back, other wise we won’t be going to jacks parents house anytime soon.

edit : i also want to mention that again i can’t wait for him to get his trainings so i can put him in doggy day care so he’s not bored at home all the time ❤️❤️❤️ i got a new job and can’t wait to work so damn hard to be able to afford school and extra stuff i want for him. he’s a spoiled little baby❤️🐶