Dad ruined birthday

I asked my dad for a ride to the store so I can make my moms favorite food and flour for a cake.

He went out and bought the flour made the cake even though I specifically said I would do it.

I said oh well so in the afternoon I said let's go get the things I need from the store and he screamed yelled at me raised his voice he glared at me like I hate your guts and he said he wasn't going out and started screaming fine I'll fucking take you to the goddam store in this heat he's been smoking cigarette's all day in the garage doesn't mind doesn't mind the heat in there.

I'm going into the store for five ingredients. It will take fifteen minutes total five minutes grab stuff ten minutes checkout.

But I told him no I won't go when he's angry screaming at me and the worst part was I let him know beforehand and in the morning he said it was okay and in the morning he didn't take me.

He wants to go to the stores by himself be a bachelor my mom told him because he won't go to the store with her either he flirts with other women and is totally okay going out whenever he wants to but alone.

So the house has no birthday decor no flowers no balloons no food because he can't go out.

I feel like crying do you guys know how much uber or lift cost?

I would walk but they have no sidewalks and is a narrow road I feel depression my moms coming home from work in two hours

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Ha

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A couple ideas: some places offer delivery depending on where you live. So it may be possible to have someone else do your shopping and deliver it to you through something like instacart or postmates. You could also look into an Uber since either you’d be paying to have someone deliver to you or paying to have someone drive you either way. Or maybe if you have anything lying around at home you could make some decorations yourself? There’s lots of DIYs online and it would be special because you made it.

Ke

Kelly • Aug 25, 2020
I agree with this. I wouldn't even want to be around your dad, you and your mom should go somewhere nice and celebrate without him!!!!

Ha

Ha • Aug 25, 2020
Or I know this isn’t as much of a surprise but maybe you and your mom could go out together, you could have her pick out whatever she wants for food or whatever as a treat and it would be special because you’d be together? Just trying to throw out whatever ideas come to mind